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But I Don't Feel Brave
They said I was strong But I didn’t feel strong I felt weak and tired and confused They said I was brave But I didn’t feel brave I felt...
Lori
Jan 20, 20201 min read


A Few of His Favorite Things
I often hear the Rodgers and Hammerstein song My Favorite Things around this time of year. Not sure why it’s included with Christmas...
Lori
Dec 25, 20191 min read


Legacies and Last Days
Today I am remembering the final days of Joe’s life. We brought him home from the hospital for the last time in mid-November of 2017....
Lori
Nov 22, 20193 min read


An Open Letter to That UCI Nurse
I’m sorry now that I don’t remember your name. You were on shift that day in late October when my dad, my sister, and I joined my mom...

Jamie
Nov 12, 20192 min read


The Glass Harp
Joe had a fun creative streak and often recorded unusual sounds to use in his music (he called it sampling). I remember one afternoon I...
Lori
Oct 22, 20191 min read


Moving Forward
For several years I came close to allowing myself the identity of “the mom whose son has brain cancer”. Then it was “the mom whose son...
Lori
Aug 14, 20192 min read


What Can I Do?
The longer we live the more likely it is we will have a friend or family member who is grieving a great loss. What can you do to comfort...
Lori
Jun 15, 20192 min read
If Everything Matters
For today’s post I thought I would feature another of Joe’s poems. I have also added it to the Poetry Page, where you can find several of...
Lori
Jun 3, 20191 min read


Second Year Thoughts
I’ve been thinking about the second year. I’ve heard from many who have walked before me on this grief road that the second year is often...
Lori
Apr 22, 20192 min read


You Lucky Dog
When someone you love dies, if you believe in life after death you start thinking a LOT more about heaven, and reading everything you can...
Lori
Feb 24, 20192 min read


Forward in the Darkness
Today, is something a little different. Usually, you’ll find posts by my mom here, where she fills virtual pages with her beautiful and...
Anna
Feb 6, 20192 min read


The Little Pen
In the last ten years or so of his life, Joe wrote many songs and poems, and I am so grateful for that. While going through his computer,...
Lori
Nov 11, 20181 min read
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